I Promised Myself I Wouldn’t Cry….

Alas, some promises are easily broken. Just ask poor Dawson.

This isn’t a matter of Joey Potter breaking my heart. (She was better off with Pacey, anyway.) It’s a matter of me breaking my own. Way back when, I wrote about how hard it is for me to write bad things into the lives of characters to whom I happen to be very attached.

It was hard then. There’s been a bumpy ride between then and now. Which means It’s even harder now. In finishing a first draft of a YA story I’ve been writing for seeming ages, it was time to face the truth of the matter. This was never going to end a blaze of hearts and flowers. I’ve known this from the beginning. It’s not that I don’t appreciate a blaze of hearts and flowers—truth be told, I kind of love them. But this just isn’t that kind of story.

So I sat down and wrote the hardest stuff that needed to be written, and I wiped away many tears as I did. Is it weird to be this caught up in your own story and characters? I hope not. Because if it is, something’s clearly gone awry with me. I’m awfully fond of these folks—I created them, after all. And like any good parent, I wanted to protect them from these ugly parts of the story, but there was just no way to avoid it.

But the deed is done.

I’m feeling good about it now that this part of the journey is over—and ready to start all over again (hopefully I’ll take a page from Melissa Manchester, though, this time around).


Writen by Cynthia

2 thoughts on “I Promised Myself I Wouldn’t Cry….

  1. You’re not alone, Cynthia. I’ve cried for my characters, too, especially poor Rosa. If you haven’t read WIRED FOR STORY by Lisa Cron, I recommend it. She talks about the neuroscience related to the reading process, but also to the writing process, and how creating conflict for our characters is counter-intuitive to our human nature, at least for many of us.
    Also saw your post about Bill Nye. I don’t usually watch DWTS either, but I saw the week he danced with a brace on his leg to do a torn tendon. I thought that was amazing choreography, and I give him HUGE credit for going through with it. Too bad he got hurt.

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